Girls who make a fool of themselves

Ladies I have two words for you: NOT CUTE. So I was just watching an older episode of 'Millionaire Matchmaker' and there was a millionairess that was a hott mess and totally living with her head in the clouds. Best quotes from Patti: "She looks like a box of crayons exploded on her face" and "Hello kitty doesn't get a hard cock."  I wanted to cringe. WHAT"S WRONG WITH THIS GIRL?? I'm not saying that at size 26 you can't get a hott guy. But let's be real if he's really that hott, what makes you so special that he's going to want to be with you and not miss size 10 over there on the other side of the room? So this millionairess, Robin, was all about Pink, Hello Kitty, her 2 dogs( Bruiser and Paris Hilton), and drinking. She was sipping wine through a straw, SERIOUSLY?!?! NOT CUTE. Oh yeah let me not forget she was all about dating someone who looked like Matthew McConaughey. Get real. Guys like him don't grow on trees. Lets just be real about that. 

Surprisingly Patti does a find a guy to bring to the mixer that looks really cute.  Well like a shallow gal with her head in the clouds, she chooses the really cute guy Luke. Luke's a plumber and really has nothing in common with Robin. But she just thought he was so Hot and didn't seem to care about any substance. She over looked some decent looking guys who actually had substance.  Just because a guy isn't a 10 doesn't mean he's not worth your time. So they went on a Master date. Well the first half of the date didn't go too well. Luke thought it would be a great idea to go on a bike ride around central park. Well Miss Porker wore a dress and judging by her physical stature it was quite obvious that she hasn't done anything athletic in years.  Bike ride, NOT CUTE. Dinner was worse. They went on a nice dinner cruise and Miss Porker had a lot to drink, again with the straw in the wine glass(WHO DOES THAT?), and she starts flirting and touching all over Luke. He openly admits he's an asshole and she replies " I love Assholes" NOT CUTE. She is a true train wreck. Then she tells him she'd buy him a Maserati and a Ducati and help him start a business. I really wanted to yell at her and be like, Sweetie he only wants your money. He doesn't like you sexually AT ALL!

I feel like you when looking for love you need to find someone who compliments you and someone who's going to make you a better person in the long term. Also physically speaking, know your audience. Be honest with yourself. If you know you are only a 7 find another 7 or maybe an 8. But I think if you only set your sights on a 10 you're going to end up alone and miss out on a lot of great guys.  In no way am I saying you can't get with a 10 But you shouldn't have tunnel vision and only look for one kind of guy. Personality can make a guy go from a 7 to an 8 real quick in your eyes.  It's important to find someone who has substance and who can give you what you really want.  Don't find yourself in a relationship with a guy who is never around knowing deep down inside that's what you really want, A guy who's around. Put his bank account, social status, and physical attractiveness aside. That stuff doesn't keep your bed warm at night when he's off god knows where. Ladies DON'T kid yourself. It's NOT CUTE. and you're just waisting time.

So Don't date guys who are bad for you and can't give you what you really want. Don't get sloppy drunk when you meet  a guy for the 1st time. Don't sip wine through a straw. Don't offer to buy a guy nice things just to keep him around because you know he's out of your league. Hello kitty doesn't make a cock hard. Tone down your make up, he eventually has to see you when it's off and it shouldn't be like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. Be honest with yourself. If you can't be honest with yourself, how can you be honest with someone else?